Keep in mind that you are already completely successful. The condition of your life, right now, is the sum total of all the decisions that you have made and the way that you have allowed the world (and its inhabitants) to impress you.
The tough part about this is that you have to take responsibility for everything. No more blaming, no playing the victim. While being a victim may be fun, it creates even further vulnerabilities and weakness. And it attracts more opportunities to fulfill your role as victim!
The good part about taking responsibility for the condition of your life is that it empowers you to take control of all of it and shape it the way that you desire. You are the writer, director, and main character!
You will be successful and the play will go on…and you get to choose the way that you experience it all.